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How  to  report  abuse

Anyone having reasonable cause to suspect that a child is a neglected or abused can report it to local law enforcement (911) or to the Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-222-8000. This statewide toll-free line is answered 24 hours a day, seven days a week.

WHAT ADULTS NEED TO KNOW

The way adults respond to this is vital to ensuring the child's safety.
RESPOND WITH CARE AND URGENCY
     
If you think a child is trying to tell you about a sexually abusive situation, respond promptly and with care. The police and children's social care have joint working arrangements for responding to suspected child sexual abuse. They are experienced in this work and will deal sensitively with the child and family.
BELIEVE THE CHILD    
     If a child trusts you enough to tell you about abuse, you must remember that they rarely lie about such things. Although it may be hard to believe that someone we trust or care about is capable of sexually abusing a child, it's highly unlikely that a child would deliberately make false accusations about adult-like sexual behaviours.
     The pressures on the child to keep silent are enormous. It takes tremendous courage to talk about abuse. A child's claim that sexual abuse did not happen (when it actually did), or taking back a disclosure of abuse are common. Sometimes the child's account of what happened changes or evolves over time. This is a common pattern for disclosure and should not invalidate their story.
BE SUPPORTIVE
     It is important that they feel supported - don't dismiss their claims or put them off talking about it.
STAY CALM
     If they are talking to you about it, don't get angry or upset. Stay calm and steady. If you get angry the child may think you are going to punish them - this will play into the hands of the abuser who warned the child not to tell. If the child fears you will become upset or distressed they are less likely to disclose in order to protect you emotionally.
BE CARING
     Make sure the child knows you love them and that they have done nothing wrong - and keep telling them. The child will need to see that adults believe them and they are doing all they can to protect them. Make sure the child knows they were right to talk about it and that you are glad they came to you.
FACE THE PROBLEM
     When the abuse is known, adults must face the problem honestly, protect the child at all costs and place responsibility appropriately with the abuser.
GET HELP
     Get help from professionals who can help guide you towards safety and healing.
DO NOT DESPAIR
     Children can and do recover from child sexual abuse. It is incredibly difficult to hear that someone you love has been hurt in such a way but help to recover is available.
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  • Giving
  • What's Happening
    • RADIOTHON
    • Our Building
  • BE INFORMED
    • How to Report Abuse
    • FACTS
    • Statistics
  • WHO WE ARE
    • Our Mission
    • Board of Directors
    • OUR HISTORY
    • Contact Us
  • PROGRAMS
    • RAISING MOTHERS TO RISE
    • STAN
    • GIVE CARE